Self motivation~

Hey people ^^ 

Been abit too long since my last post so I decided to post sumthin up XD

Yesh I know that is kinda of a lame excuse, but hey, at least I AM motivated to do so...

AND SO~!

My post today would be playing around self motivation...

How can I start things off?

Well, a friend once told me to be happy, the first step would be WANTING to be happy.
For without the WANT, there won't be a WILL to BE happy, understand where I am going here?
That special person had his/her bad times as well, and I also told her that it is not about believing that you don't deserve it, but instead KNOWING that you DO DESERVE IT~!
and don't let others tell you otherwise, for your happiness is priority number 1~!

Yesh you heard me~!

For if YOU do not want to be happy, no one can help you, for they can only stand by your side and wait until you want to be happy.
It's not that they do not care, but they too are human, and they are at a lost in telling someone who DOESN'T want to be HAPPY to BE HAPPY instead...
It just doesn't work that way, and you'd hate them even more for being... well, so tactless....

It is as simple as that, if it DOES make YOU HAPPY, DO IT~!
Regardless of what others tell you, for living with a regret of not doing something (wondering what if I had done it?), is much worst compared to living a life of regretting of doing something you want..

Finding that balance to carry on... even when you WANT to be happy can be tough, believe me, I have gone through such a phase.
The only thing I can do for another, especially those that matter to me is to BE THERE for them, constantly encouraging them that the grass is greener on the other side, and support them on that tight rope~
For life has its ups and downs, and nothing in my power can change that..

But it is the memories that shape our life and personalities to such a degree that it defines the very nature of ourselves.
HOWEVER the one good thing is that we have the POWER how we choose to see things, to PERCEIVE things, if you will...
and it is that WILL POWER that decide things, rather than those around you..

Last and not least...
The question that plagues most students that are struggling to keep up with family expectations and to somehow get their place in society....
What if I don't achieve properly in my academics?
What if I am deemed too young and immature?
REMEMBER~!

Remember this post when your sad and frustrated with yourself or with others, or with anyone..
For instead of trying to better ourselves for their sake, we can choose to better ourselves for OUR OWN SAKE and there is nothing stronger than the will of a person who has set his/her mind to it..

I quote a special person to me saying this to me once...
"Hey, you won't believe what I can do when I set my mind to it~"
and that has been one of my life holdings up till now..
It hasn't gone wrong since~

Fai fai No-Reason's weather forecast:
There is a small incoming black cloud in the distant and strong winds blow ominously from the north.
I worry what this may bring, especially a dear one of mine is facing those winds alone~
I pray and hope that things will get better, and that I am able to come to her aide when the time comes~

Piece~