Food for thought

I will not make any excuses for the excessively random and totally unpredictable postings, but hey, here I am now so let's leave it at that XD
Things are find as usual today...
Well, fine as much as I would like to hope it would be.
There are things that I would like to have changed today if I was given a chance, but today has happened and that's that, no going back to change things.
Enjoy and focus on things that are happening in "the now" rather than thinking excessively on "the past" and "the might have been".... not to forget, "the should have been" and "the ideal future".
There is no such thing.
Things happens, so like the saying goes,"When life give you lemons, you make lemonades"
More often than naught, we take the lemons and yell our heads off with dissatisfaction and take out our anger/rage/remorse on the poor innocent soul around the corner (which most likely doesn't know what is even going on) by picking up the lemons life put in your path and throwing at the innocent souls around us.

The question is why should we?

Must we?

Why me?

Instead of crying over the spilled milk that has happened, why not pull our heads together and think about what CAN be done about the milk that has been spilled.
Be it cleaning up the mess, replacing the milk with a new carton of milk, or even licking up the milk from the floor (not advisable btw XD this is for example purposes only ^^) a problem can be solved and its a matter of just striving for the solution that everyone is happy.
Sure its difficult to make EVERYONE happy, but at least we try to compromise on everyone's part, I fail to see the reason why it shouldn't work?

I have often told many people, if there is something that you don't like about me, I would rather hear it said to me than hear it said BEHIND me.
and should you open your mouth and say something about others, its only fair that you know that there is a chance that such facts will be heard by the other person sooner or later.
It's just a matter of time, and believe me, sometimes it doesn't take long >.<

Now now, don't get ahead of yourselves thinking that I must have heard something said about me, and that's why I'm actually typing out such a post XD
Nothing of that sort really, so don't flatter yourselves ^^
Even if I do come across such stories about myself, I choose to better myself rather than sinking down to a definite lower state by retaliating (which includes retaliatory defamation and cursing)
But I do wonder what do people get by stereotyping people and holding grudges?

Satisfaction perhaps?
Well, I hope that satisfaction is worth it as I for one fail to see the benefits one gains from doing so.
I'm not telling everyone to refrain completely, that would be impossible XD
After all, we are only humans.
But I will make one final statement before signing off for now...




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Just because everyone does something wrong and it is accepted widely, it doesn't justify an action as a right one.



So think about it? and let me know what you think at the comments or the cbox on the side XD
Do make sure your comments haf dates of the post that you are referring to ^^

Signing off, piece~