We are lucky, there's no simpler statement than that. There are many who have parents that couldn't care less about their children, and there are parents who try their best to understand their children, only to be rebuffed and avoided by them. Think about it!DADs..
(My def) A man in our life that we look up to in times of need and show you the way to stand on your own 2 feet in the big world..
Well, this is true in most cases don' you think so? A father gives support, strength and courage we need when trying something new. Notice that he is always there to help if ever anything goes wrong. He'll try to give us what we want whenever possible, and yet when he says "no", we only assume that he does not love us. Did it occur that there's always a sensible reason behind his actions? Yes, dads are sensible people, and most of the time, its hard to fight against his logic and his know-it-all attitude. In short, sometimes its difficult for a dad to express his love to us.. BUT he is there for you~ and you know it..
MOMs...
(My def) A woman in our life where our life begins and revolves around, who gives you a hug whenever u need one and the special person who holds your hand and guides you along the way.
The special person that gives warmth and consolation in everyway without asking for anything in return, only to remember her when we grow up. When the whole world is out to get you or difficult times arises, ther's only one person that will stand by yourside without question... And so, moms are very different from dads, whereby mom will shower you with love non-stop around the clock no matter who we become in the future. They love so much as early as we can remember until the point where we take that love for granted. Treasure your mom, and don't do anything stupid that will make you regret endlessly as you were too late to ask for forgiveness later on. Spend time wif mom, for without them, we wouldn't be the person we are now..
Well, did whatever i typed out made any sense? Mom and dad will ALWAYS be mom and dad, regardless of what they say or do. Its true! Dad has his own qualities, and Mom has her own qualities. Its up to us to pick up the good qualities that our parents try to pass on to us.
Dad can be a pain sometimes.
I know he will be there for me whenever i need him, but even that depends on the situation at the time.. You see, he is VERY conscious about the people around him, and tries to appeal to everyone's better nature, especially if he knows the person. His policy is not to lose your "cool" with tiny matters. When someone does something wrong for exp, he wouldn't blame the person entirely. He "claims" that it would be "unproductive" to scold the person further. So INSTEAD! You should think about what can be done to amend the mistake instead.. Kinda true, but i would start screaming my head off and list down all the mistakes the person has done (a way to vent my frustration i guess XD) Oh well, looks like i have a few things that i can pick up from my dad, hehe..BUT! In his efforts to be "popular" with other people, he tends to forget that i'm right there beside him in the 1st place.. He doesn't prioritise properly and is pretty lousy when it comes to planning. Mind you, this covers everything, from settling the bills up to picking up my bro frm school (there was once where he was almost 30 minutes late when he lost track of time while playing golf!) Though as a dad, he has his own good points.. From being able to see the bright side in kinda bad situations, right to the fact that he's able to find the funny side of anything that happens around him.. Sometimes this can be very annoying, but hey, he wouldn't be dad if he isn't so right? (most of the time, he thinks of golf.. not really my game but hey, i can hit the ball too ya noe? XD)
AND there's mom..
Mom thinks of the best at all times for the household. Anything major bought is basically for the family. Even at work, i can call her at any time and she'll be there. She gives me sensible advice and gives comments when she feels that something can be improved. At times mom can abit impulsive and panics easily (especially if we get lost while driving or she misplaced something). Thankfully, she CAN be reasoned with regardless of situation (though you have to research up your facts before you start debating ^^) maybe the reason i get along with mom so well is that we have so much in common yea? *winks*Reflecting on yourself is important i guess...
BUT!?!
Before you do that, take around you and see those that cherish you and see if that is necessary? For they love you for the way you are and not what you will or have achieved. AND, if they do ask you to change..
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Well, maybe its for your own good ya? hehe..
Signing off here for now, piece~
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